Am i such a bad person? i mean my dad talks bad about my mom and calls me a screwup and then says that i am an idiot. I am not going to deny the fact that i havent been perfect in my life (drugs smoking drinking) but i quit and i stopped skipping school. i am on meds for my deppression and i have been grounded for three years and counting. do you think i am right and he is not helping me get better? HELP!